Setting Boundaries

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Setting Boundaries

Simple ways to make quiet time special

“When we are kind to others, we feel happy inside. That’s the power of practice.” — Adapted from Ajahn Sumedho, The Sound of Silence
  • Teacher Experience

    A contemplative invitation for educators to reflect on before teaching.

    Notice the energetic difference in your classroom when you begin with a moment of intentional silence versus jumping straight into content. How might creating even the simplest ritual containers help both you and your students transition into deeper learning? Contemplate where your routine could be tuned and supported with boundaries that can help guide awareness. Even reflecting on what has been learned at the end of a lesson, an increasingly popular and research-based good teaching practice, can become a ritual that strengthens and multiplies the power of that learning, especially if you weave in intention and aspiration.

  • Student Experience

    A contemplative invitation for students to connect with this learning goal.

    Notice how you feel when everyone sits quietly in a circle compared to when everyone is moving and talking loudly. Try ringing a small bell and see how the sound makes you feel inside.

  • Understanding

    Students will understand...

    Creating special quiet time helps us feel calm and safe so we can practice being still and peaceful together.

  • Action

    Students are able to...

    Practice simple ways to make special quiet time by sitting in circles, using gentle voices, and ringing small bells to start and stop activities, then share what makes spaces feel calm and safe.

  • Content Knowledge

    Students will know...

    Making special quiet time helps us feel calm and peaceful inside. When we sit in a circle together, use quiet voices, and ring small bells, we create a special space for practicing being still. Circles help everyone see each other and feel included. Quiet voices help everyone listen and feel safe. Bells make beautiful sounds that help us know when to start and stop our quiet time.

    Simple things like sitting on special mats, walking slowly, and using gentle hands help make ordinary places feel special. When everyone follows the same gentle agreements, like using quiet voices and taking turns, the whole group feels more peaceful and happy. These simple practices help us learn to be calm and focused together.

  • Guiding Questions

    • What makes a space feel special and calm?
    • How do we know when it's time to be quiet?
    • What happens when we all sit in a circle together?
    • How does it feel when we ring a bell?
    • What helps us remember to use quiet voices?
  • Implementation Possibilities

    Create daily circle time with simple bell-ringing rituals where children take turns being the “bell keeper.” Practice walking meditation around classroom boundaries using quiet feet and gentle movements. Establish “quiet voice” practice through whisper games and silent hand signals like “quiet coyote.” Design movement activities where children arrange chairs in circles or sit on special mats to create group containers. Use transition songs and simple breathing exercises to help children experience how group focus develops through shared activities.

  • Assessment Ideas

    Observation of circle participation and gentle voice use, listening during sharing time about calm feelings, partner demonstration of bell ringing, and group participation in walking practice. Show-and-tell about favorite quiet activities, collaborative drawing of circle arrangements, demonstration of quiet coyote signals, singing songs about making special spaces, and oral sharing about what makes them feel calm and safe.

“When we are kind to others, we feel happy inside. That’s the power of practice.” — Adapted from Ajahn Sumedho, The Sound of Silence

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